Par part 2 Trying to think better.

Stopping Negative Mindsets

This involves starting to recognize negative thoughts and mindsets and then trying to restructure the way you think about things. One of the things is recognizing how you feel. Is it negative or positive? Address what the truth is and try to restructure the wrong thing to something positive.

It looked like the other day someone was going to pull out in front of me on the road. One of my first thoughts was you feel entitled. Then I caught myself that I was in a negative mindset. Now I could go on thinking like that and feeling that anger or I could stop it. So I asked myself, how can I restructure this? We need to start making sure we are thinking positively.

What I thought of is, if I had pulled up quicker, it might not have happened. The main thing is it taught me to watch out more for others. That was something I could learn and do so; the negative emotion turned into a positive. I felt like I had learned something. I had moved on. Very simple, and it was logical too.

Sometimes it doesn’t matter if it makes a lot of sense as long as it gets you out of a negative mindset. Some might say well that makes no sense. Well, I could be mad, or I could try to make it productive. Try to restructure something into something positive. Sometimes we feel stressed and don’t know what to do next, or we feel anger, or we are jealous or frustrated. It is key to first identify the negative feeling/thought and then ask yourself how can I restructure this positively. Here are a few examples below.

If you start your day and something bad happens, you may be tempted to be in a bad mood or be angry or sad. Start to notice the negative thoughts coming at you and think about how to reconstruct your thoughts to a positive. Sometimes redirecting to a positive means knowledge and understanding of something. For instance, someone says something hurtful to you rather than dwell on it; you think their opinion probably will not matter in 10 years, so why do I care. You may even have what I call a repeatable. When something like that happens, maybe you say to yourself, why do I care? Another thing is I try to see the mindset of where the person is coming from that often helps me know how to deal with that type of person.

Try to find the right things to focus on and disassociate from certain things while you’re in a negative mindset.

Take a moment and list some of the negative things you tell yourself and write down beside it a idea on how you might be able to reconstruct that into something positive when it comes into your mind.

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Here are some questions I would like you to consider.

I think it is important to research and study something everyday. What is something you need to study up on? It could be a field of study that you need to study routinely or just some research on something else.

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Finding a superior process to apply to your life. In short
research, keep refining, adapting, applying, researching.


What is the number one thing you want? Detail that out on what you need
to do to get that done. 

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What are some of the small things you can implement right now
that would help you achieve what you want? Are those some things you can write
down in the daily better action list above. 

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I want you to think how you would want your life to be ideally.
What do you want to accomplish? If your life was exactly what you wanted what
would it look like? What kind of person would you be?  It might sound ridiculous,
but don’t you think you would have a better shot of reaching exactly what you
want if you knew what you wanted? Below write down a general overview what your
ideal life would look like. Are those some things you can write down in the
daily better action list above to practice? 

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I want you to think about how you would want your life to be ideally. What do you want to accomplish? If your life was exactly what you wanted, what would it look like? What kind of person would you be?


Write down a general overview of what your ideal life would look like. 

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Now visualize where your at right now
what one thing could you do right now in your life that would help you make the
most difference in what you want? What are some action steps you can take right
now. 

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 In your every day life what are some things at work or home that you struggle with? How can you limit the struggle and maybe find a positive solution altogether? I want you to also try to list some possible solutions that might help you be more effective, less stressed, happier. It could be something as simple as a scheduled break. Or it may mean getting started earlier or organizing things in at different way.

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